A career in the world of graphic design can give a young lady many opportunities to meet and work with eligible bachelors. But unless you are already a master seductress you may need a refresher course on how to attract the man of your dreams.
Do you know what men secretly want? The video above has some good tips, but here are a few more helpful bits of advice on how to make a good impression on a man you’d like to date.
Let’s be real, dating a man is probably the easiest way now to get to know him so that you can determine whether you think he’s be a good partner to have in your life. Sure, it’s undeniably very romantic to spend the evening gazing into his eyes, sipping wine and having him had feed you raw oysters. But ladies, before you land a date with Mr Dreamboat there is a bit of groundwork that you must first lay.
Tip 1. Do not pretend to be somebody you are not.
I know you may have a lot of insecurities when it comes to your body, skin, family background or dating history. But it’s always better to me honest rather than trying to hide behind a mask. Because this way you can really measure a guy’s interest in the real you. Also, if you started the conversation bragging about false facts and unreal achievements, you are beginning to create expectations that may eventually disappoint the guy and hurt you.
2. Be mindful of what you wear and how you look.
Some women are unsure about wearing daring clothes, but if it’s really your personality, it’s okay. Just wear clothes you are comfortable with so you can also act comfortably, but not too comfortable as it is always important to look presentable. And if you are serious about finding a solid man with husband potential then remember that most classy guys are intimidated or just plain turned off by a girl with body piercing or tattoos all over her body.
3. Turn off your phone.
If you keep on looking at your phone and even replying to messages when a guy is trying to talk to you he might think you aren’t interested in him. Focus on him and how you can build the connection through conversation.
4. Don’t drink too much.
Happy hour is great place to meet professional men, but drinking too much alcohol can really turn off a guy. It makes you look sloppy and like you may have a serious drinking problem.
5. Maintain the conversation.
Try to ask more questions about him, his hobbies, his family, etc. Appreciate what he does and don’t judge or argue with him. Show him that you are interested in his life, and that you have a sincere interest in becoming part of it!